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It seems like trolling is part and parcel of  Long term impact, solutions
                                               webcam life. How does this present itself?
                                                                                       It’s  clear  this  kind  of  harassment  leaves  an
                                                                                      impact on models emotionally and in terms of
                                                “It’s mostly negative comments on posts
                                                                                      going about their work.
                                               etc, but I do have someone who emails me
                                               quoting my favorite author about girls being
                                                                                       Summers shared, “Trolling has really devastated
                                               kidnapped/tortured etc,” Breeze shared.
                                                                                      me in the past. Many times, I’ve been in floods of
                                                                                      tears, sobbing my heart out. This impacts on my
                                                Summers said she receives two specific types
                                                                                      whole life and those around me. On occasions
                                               of trolling: attacking her job and attacking her   it’s led to depression and I’ve lost confidence to
                                               appearnace.                            work, which I can’t afford to do. It [also] impacts
                                                                                      my  partner  [as]  he  must  deal  with  me  beating
                                                “I receive negative comments about my   myself  up.  He  hates  seeing  how  hurt  I  get  by
                                               appearance and my job. The most common has   these gutless bullies who don’t even have the
                                               been attacks on my weight. Someone recently   balls to post their own picture.”
                                               copied photos from Twitter to his Tumblr
                                                                                       Trolling has the power to affect your mental
                                               account  and  captioned  them  ‘Who  wants  to
                                                                                      health and confidence. Summers and Breeze has
                                               breed this fat tart?’” Summers shared.
                                                                                      some suggestions for other models dealing with
                                                 “I receive a lot of comments about   trolls.
                                                 my boobs. I’ve been told my ‘tits are
                                                                                       “Getting  trolled  whilst  camming  is  harder
                                                 disgusting.’ Then others join in with ‘look
                                                                                      because there are other guys watching. I know
                                                 at the state of that’ etc. I’ve been called
                                                                                      trolls  are  seeking  a  reaction,  and  so  I  try  very
                                                 ugly, cauliflower cunt, fat slag…”
                                                                                      hard not to show one,” Summers said.
                                               Who are these trolls?                   “I only get cam trolls when I offer free chat to

                                                                                      entice guys to pay for a show. I’ve tried lots of
                                                In the world of trolling, though there are some
                                                                                      ways of dealing with trolls. I’ve even closed my
                                               characteristic patterns, “stereotypical” webcam
                                                                                      account down numerous times and tried naming
                                               trolls are actually quite variable.    and shaming, but only one thing really works.
                                                                                      Ignore, block and forget about them. They crave
                                                “Most of trolling comes from men, but I do
                                                                                      attention.  They’re  eaten  up  with  feelings  of
                                               get my fair share from women. I would estimate   jealousy, inadequacy and envy. People like this
                                               it’s a 70/30 percent split,” Summers estimated.  are not worth your attention. Don’t respond or
                                                                                      react,  just  block  them.  It’s  hard  not  to  defend
                                                “I believe I usually get female trolls after   yourself, but it’s the only way to win,” she added.
                                               guys have shared my picture. I believe it shows
                                               insecurity  in  their  own  looks.  Not  because  of   Breeze added, “I know it’s hard, but a stranger’s
                                                                                      opinion means nothing. Don’t argue back or
                                               my looks, but because I have the confidence to
                                                                                      even answer them. They crave your attention.
                                               flaunt it and do what I like.”
                                                                                      Block and report. If they persist, report it to the
                                                                                      police.”
                                                Breeze also reported noticing a trend towards
                                               male trolls, “It’s mainly men in my case,
                                                                                       If  you  find  yourself  targeted  by  one  of  these
                                               probably guys not getting enough attention
                                                                                      individuals remember: As difficult as it may be,
                                               or who have been rejected. There was this guy   avoid feeding the trolls.
                                               who would come in private every time I’d go
                                               on cam. He’d start off nice and then slowly get
                                                                                      Katy Seymour is a super-sex-positive writer in
                                               more abusive. I’d block, and he’d open another
                                                                                      the U.K. who believes kink is life. Email her at
                                               profile. I get angry and paranoid if it’s this guy.
                                                                                      katy@ynotcam.com.
                                               I ended up staying off cam for weeks to stop
                                                                                      Reprinted courtesy of YNot
                                               him pestering me.”


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