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Should i or

Should i not

tell my family i

am a cam girl?

his is the question every model has asked Next, we talked to Rebecca Rossye, one
therself. Most of the girls do it in secret as of our newest models, who begined working
they do not want any of their family or friends here this fall and so far she’s had a great start.
to know how they earn money. But is it right?
Should they be embarrassed of their job? If My boyfriend suggested I should try being
we’re being honest, camming is very popular a cam model and so far he is the only one
nowadays and the industry keeps growing. who knows. I am still learning and I don’t want
Not to mention that it is also very legal. So to tell my family and friends yet. They have
why do girls want to keep it as secret as they very certain ideas about this industry and
can? We asked a few of our models how they don’t really want them to see me differently.
handle this situation and if they told someone Maybe this is just in my head, and they would
about their occupation. probably support me eventually, but it is a risk
I am not willing to take yet. It’s been hard trying
The first model who answered our question to keep it a secret and I know that everyday
is Michelle Alvon, she has been working with they can find out, so I am seriously thinking
us for almost a year and is one of the most about telling them. I love what I do, it is very
dedicated cam girls: secure, I have a contract and everything, so
they should be ok with it. Until then, I will do
When I first started, I was very scared of my best so that I can show everyone what an
what anyone would think and kept it a secret amazing job opportunity this is.
for some time. Eventually, I took a deep
breath, thought about it and realised there Judging by what our two models said, the
is nothing I should be embarrassed about. biggest problem is people’s perception and
It is a fulfilling job, which helped me develop their acceptance for everything new. They
personally and professionally, I have met a lot don’t really know what this industry is about
of amazing people and there is a whole team but they think they have a right to condemn.
which has my back and helps me through This is what we should teach them, by
every step. Once I explained this to my closest explaining how different video chatting is from
friends and family, they started to view my job what they think they know.
a little differently. I am proud to be a cam girl
and I always talk about it with my parents, my So the answer to the question: Should
friends, so they know that this was the best models be embarrassed about being cam
choice for me. girls? Is NO. They shouldn’t. They should
be proud and contented about having a life
She learned that if someone loves you, they everyone dreams of but few can achieve.
will accept you as you are and will support you
in everything you do.

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